"The stress was tremendous," says one source, referring to the difficult months in 2009 and 2010. He didn't want his daughters to see him in the condition he was in, not least because his ongoing self-harm was evident in the bruises around his eyes – but Tasha suggested that his daughters would want to be involved in his recovery and could handle the truth. That's not unusual; people always tell their story as they want it be known. I just became overwhelmed with those feelings. These newspapers, while publicly registered, are limited in liability and privately held; the public knows little about their operations.
He brought Alison Hall, who had been a nanny for Kenneth and Tasha's younger daughters when she was at Toronto's Ryerson University. I was a journalism student from Winnipeg, struggling to put myself through Ryerson University.
New Brunswick is the second poorest province in Canada—our median income is the lowest amongst the provinces, we have the highest unemployment rates, our provincial government is facing a $453 million deficit, and is paying $685 million a year towards debt-servicing costs. She is now a TV producer with Inside Edition in New York, and it was her that Kenneth first approached to tell his story. He is looking at the camera, expressionless; his eyes are black circles; his eyelids are swollen, like a boxer who has lost the fight. We were transitioning the company to the next stage.". True to Irving practice, alcohol was not served at those events – a rule Kenneth respected in his father's presence, although he enjoys a beer with friends.
Finally he saw a psychiatrist, who prescribed medication, which he took for a while, though it made his legs shake, his mouth dry, and working difficult. In others, he has been evasive, citing legal restraints. He was still, he says, refusing to admit how sick he was. "I had to return to New Brunswick, to get back at it, and I convinced myself that it was not that big of a deal. The first time I met up with Kenneth Irving was in early November, in a meeting room at the Royal York Hotel in Toronto.
It was a lesson he could not now shake: Keep your weakness to yourself. "But I can say this," he offers, "it is not true … For someone who is looking for an answer, it sounds like a pretty reasonable scenario, if you throw in a lot of other drama. I put my heart into everything because that is the way I am wired, but I also felt that I would do my dad proud. The company remains privately owned by members of the Irving family, and is led by one of K.C.’s sons Arthur. ", "If someone is reading this story, and they're in an unhealthy relationship, and they are feeling, 'Maybe I am going through the same thing,' I really want them to understand that getting out on your own and being independent is the very first step that you have to take. Kenneth's closet friends paid visits, too, occasionally bringing their own children, to walk the grounds with him as his condition improved. "If he can't love me," he continues, his voice suddenly cracking, "maybe he will respect me." Nestled between the Meduxnekeag River and Saint John River, farm fields can be seen behind the Wal-Mart; it’s the epitome of rural Canada and small-town charm. In a well-publicized partnership with British Petroleum, Irving Oil had announced that it was exploring plans to invest in a second refinery outside Saint John. He would never sit again behind the desk that had been handed down from K.C. Sometimes his wife would also catch him rubbing at his bruises, as if he didn't even realize he was doing it. That the stress of the job – and all that went with it – had caused Kenneth to suffer a mental breakdown.
When he was away from his family, though, on the road for work, and alone at nights in hotel rooms, Kenneth himself recalls, his depression and anxiety worsened. Based out of the maritimes, Irving Oil was one of the first big energy businesses in Canada. His statement of claim referred to "many instances of misconduct and inappropriate behaviour involving members of the Irving family that created an intolerance and poisoned work environment." Instead of paying $8 million a year in taxes for the next 25 years, which would drastically benefit the province, Kenneth was able to persuade the mayor to accept a measly $500, 000.
They own all five of the English language daily newspapers in the province, alongside 29 other publications, including 21 French and English weekly newspapers. Arthur Irving is now 86. Mr. Ashar declines to comment on the lawsuit, or to speak about Arthur Irving. It was, he says jokingly, "very inspirational.").
"You just have these grooves that are such deep trenches in your mind, that if you get on one thought pattern, it is hard to get out of those ruts. In addition to non-profit work relating to the environment and the protection of personal data, he continues to focus on LUUM (the name is a play on the word loom, as in weaving people and society together), which has created a platform for businesses to improve the commutes of their employees and promote more environmental forms of transportation. The time for meetings, the chance to repair what's been broken, is running out. Over the years, the brothers had assumed distinct roles in the empire – Arthur took over the energy side; J.K., forestry and shipbuilding; Jack handled real estate and construction. The family also happen to own three radio stations, one of which is in Newfoundland.
Within the fine lines of their contracts it states that the owners can sell their works in media “now in existence, or which may hereafter be developed”. ), The details of the trust are murky, and the court document provides an incomplete picture, but among the recipients were Arthur himself, the four children from his first marriage – Kenneth, Arthur Jr., Jennifer and Emily – and their offspring. It can be ambient. Non-subscribers can read and sort comments but will not be able to engage with them in any way. Irving established Irving Oil in 1924.
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He has returned only twice to Saint John, the royal seat of the Irving empire, and then only to pack up his house and finalize the donation of the 50-acre estate to an environmental non-profit. "I felt energized by the people there, and the work that I was doing," he says. Throughout the process, Kenneth told me that he was willing to bare all if even one person could relate to any part of his story and find strength in their family and friends, but most importantly within themselves. I only knew the Irvings as the family, who included me in their birthday dinners and taught me, among several other important life lessons, the best way to throw a ball for their chocolate Lab. "But every family has their dynamics. And it plays out in different ways.". Escaping taxes is something that the Irvings are professionals at now. In June, 2010, not long before Kenneth's leave of absence was announced, the project was cancelled. But the messy, emotional relationship between father and son eventually did land in court, and that document is remarkably revealing. Kenneth will say this much, and he does so forcefully: His illness and his departure from Irving Oil were not related to a "temper tantrum," as he puts it, over any inheritance. But he was heading back to Saint John, he recalls; and as the return date approached, he was unable to sleep, and "just feeling constant dread.
He won't share what was discussed in their last meeting, in 2010, except to say this: "When my dad left, I knew that was it. Later, that life-altering day, after Tasha did her best over breakfast to distract their daughters from their father's bruises with a well-meaning fiction about bumps in the night, after Kenneth's psychiatrist arrived from out of town and insisted his patient be hospitalized for his own safety, Kenneth was driven to the airport. Are the secretive Irvings ready for their close-up? Due to technical reasons, we have temporarily removed commenting from our articles. Whispers that Arthur Irving, reluctant to fully cede power, had been unhappy with the business direction that Kenneth was taking, and fired his son. "In the beginning, it was just … chair … pen … glass … bottle," he says, pointing to those objects on the table at the Royal York.
 He was educated at Acadia University.. But by 2009, oil prices had collapsed, and the economy was in recession.
None of the various companies that the Irvings own are up for public trade, allowing for no financial transparency. The mood lightens when they tell stories of their "dates" while he was receiving treatment. He became an outpatient, travelling on the train from Portland, where they had rented a home, and getting off at Boston's North Station, a short walk to Massachusetts General. The production and consumption of news is fundamental to a liberal democracy, and a monopoly ownership reduces competition and journalistic quality. The company replaced rusted tanks and old trucks, made improvements to its convenience stores, and embarked on a major retrofit of the refinery itself. Time and money went into leadership training and employee engagement – including raising salaries to industry standards – and much-needed repairs, such as the addition of air-conditioning to the aging headquarters, which had been built by K.C. On school breaks, he worked entry-level jobs for Irving Oil – his resumé includes such titles as underground petroleum-tank operator and lubricant-packaging-and-production-line worker. "Whatever part of my life was successful, it didn't bring the right response … and perhaps, I have to admit, I put too much hope in that.